[CarmJoeMom]

I 100% want to adopt a baby and I know Guatemala is the place for me. My husband says that he will do it and loves the idea. When we first married we had decided we'd have two biological children, and then talk about the adoption. I've changed my mind after the first biological child and want to adopt my second. My feelings are that I really want this. It's a lifelong dream and I am scared that if we have a second biological then we will feel we don't have the money or the time or the room or there will be some excuse why not to do it. I feel now is the time.

My husband keeps saying that he wants one more biological child first. I want my husband to really feel also that now is the time. I don't want him to do this for me, I want him to want it for himself. Did any of you deal with this? how did you overcome it?

Thanks