[michellemartin]

The agency I went through doenst charge (Kara's parents gave me a sheet of what they charge and how much) for birthmom expences. They are above the cost. The agency allows 1000.00 non medical- or maybe the state sets that guideline, I'm not really sure how that dollar amount got set. But no the pbparent doesnt pay it back if they change their mind- legal risk. So I also think there should be a spending cap in other places. I hear also of ap's putting down payments for cars, months of living expences... all that sort of thing. I cant believe it. By doing that, I think its harder for the pbparent to make a choice based soley on what they want. I really like the 1000 cap for living expences. (medical was seperate)