[kemf]

FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE I CAN SEE WHY YOU MIGHT WANT TO CLOSE THE DOOR AND NEVER LOOK BACK. BUT NO MATTER HOW YOU TRY THAT IS A DOOR THAT WILL NEVER CLOSE. ITS A PART OF YOU THAT WILL NAG YOU CONTINOUSLY UNTIL YOU HAVE PEACE.
PART OF THAT PEACE SHOULD BE KNOWING THAT YOU DID EVERYTHING IN THE COMPLETE AND UNSELFISH INTEREST OF HER. AND IF YOU TRUELY DID, WOULDNT IT TRUELY BE PEACEFUL FOR HER TO ONE DAY TELL YOU THANK YOU.
COMING FROM AN ADOPTEE, ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS TO DEAL WITH IS THE UNKNOWN. AND NEVER KNOWING IF YOU WERE WANTED AND LOVED. OPEN ADOPTION GIVES HER THE CHANCE, NO MATTER HOW LOVED, TO HAVE ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS THAT CAN ALSO BE VERY PAINFUL.
SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO KNOW, AND MORE THAN LIKELY SHE WILL WANT TO.