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Cantstopmommin -
I'll try to answer your questions -
Do you have regrets? No.
Would you adopt this child again? In a heartbeat.
Is this child better off in your home than any other? Thats an impossible question to answer, but I feel that our home meets her needs. I like to think that we are the best.
You love your children--does that and the happiness that comes through--make the difference? My children add so much to my life that they are worth every heartache we experience. The positives so far outweigh the negatives.
You just have to take an educated risk. Determine what issues you can adequately deal with and move forward from there. Do not accept a placement that is out of your ability. Realize that love cannot heal all hurts that these children bring with them.
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