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Hey, me again;I need to clarify my friend's statement about shame--shame remains the wall her sisters and some family members hide behind. My friend has since, in her own life, knocked that wall down and is living a strong, healthy life with two of her very own lovely children. I shared all this with her--and I expressed my concerns for her kids playing with my kids (if infact we adopted this boy); she said obvious precautions would be taken, but that her children know what is allowed and not allowed and would not hesitate to sound an alarm! I feel this same thing about our little guy--however, is that enough? Is there a possibility that the openness that we all share and the boundaries our children know as VERY FIRM--would that be enough?
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