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We are looking for kids with mild issues.
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Children in the care of social services rarely have "mild issues". You have to realize that their background was bad enough that the government was able to take away their parent's rights. That isn't easily done. They must prove pretty severe abuse and/or neglect. That is why the children are not flocking to your doorstep.
Maybe you should revisit the disorders these children may have and determine which ones you could accept.
Yes, "mild" is subject to interpretation. Since the social workers see some very severe issues, what they call mild may still be quite bad to an average person. Just remember that a history of abuse and neglect followed by years in the foster care system rarely produces a child with mild issues. That is why there is such a need for parents for the children with issues. There a lots of them just waiting for a home.
Also realize that if you adopt an older child overseas, they will probably have an attachment disorder and it won't be documented. Long term orphanage living is detrimental to a child's ability to attach. Not trying to discourage you, but just be realistic.