OMG, you poor thing. When I went for the blood test for our invitro to see if we were prego, I also wasn't allowed to answer to phone or check the messages until hubby got home. I went to lunch with a friend to keep me occupied but when I got home the machine was blinking and it took everything to not check the message. I called my hubby and made him rush home. Then the message was from my mother seeing if I heard yet. I wanted to kill her. Unfortunately, when they did call the dh was home and I was so glad because I think that was the first nervous break down I ever had.
Hope he comes home soooooon!
Good luck on your referral, I will be praying for a beautiful, healthy child for you.
-Jo