[Livingmydream]

When we were matched with our bmom, she told us the name of a young man, stated he was the bfather and told us all about him. She also assured us he would sign the TRP. Well, our daughter was born, and he never showed up where he said he would, or answered calls from the agency. Finally, one night after work, they greeted him in the parking lot and he said, I'll sign it, but before it is filed, I'd like a dna for my own piece of mind. I want to know that when/if this child comes to find me, that she is indeed mine. (mind you, his grandma was at hospital and took tons of photos, etc.) We never met him, he did not come to hospital. So, dna was done and it was not not a match. So, now we have a 9 month old, with a big unknown. well, bmom refused to name anyone else, so we did all the stuff for unknowns according to the law(advertising, etc) and at 18 months, it all became finalized.
Good luck- you can not always think the worse