[SadieAnn]

He first told bmom he would tpr, and then came this request. So right now the big question is we don't know why he is asking for this. It could be as you mentioned that if he has doubts he may just need to know regardless of his decision.

We don't know at this time how long it takes to get dna results.

We just hope for everyone's sake that he states what his intentions are if the test confirms his paternity. If the test says he isn't the father than we have a whole new problem because this is the only person the bmom has said could be the father. And truly she has been wonderful and we have no reason not to believe her.

You are right that if he chooses to parent that is his right and we respect and understand that, we'd just like to know his intentions.