[SadieAnn]

Bdad first told bmom he'll tpr. Now he's asking for dna test. No one knows what it means. Naturally my head is spinning and I'm fearing the worst. Bmom seems still committed to her adoption plan. She has said she regrets her brief relationship with bdad. She said one of many reasons for choosing adoption is she doesn't want she or her baby connected to bdad for life.

Anybody have any experience with this? Any words of wisdom?