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Any of you journal to your children?

I try to do it every day. For two reasons -- (1) so I can talk to them before they even get here and (2) so I will know what I was doing the day they were born.

My question is... is it unfair to our future children to read about the seven referrals we have had to release? Is it good for them to see the process we went through to get them or would it be heartbreaking for them to see that they weren't "the first choice".

I don't know how the adoptive mind works so if anyone would like to share their opinion, I would love to hear it.