I think many of your fears are normal mommy worries---but then again we are always trying to look out for any baby home related behavior/issues that we might need to address. Then on top of that we are trying to learn more about the individual personality/temperament of our child/children. Parenting is a learning curve and sometimes the initial reaction seems to be to panic because we love these little buggers so much---but really what good does panicking ever do (this is a lesson I'm constantly trying to teach myself
!) Hang in there.
Donna