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Join the club!
I don't post much because we are still in the paperwork phase. But I understand the stressers! My problem was the initial urgency I felt once we got the list of required documents. I thought if we didn't check one thing off our list every day that we weren't moving forward fast enough. Then I realized I was stressing myself out. I came to the realization that it's better for me if I just go at a comfortable pace. In a weird cosmic way I was able to grasp the idea that the baby we're meant to have, will be there when we get to that point. Does that make any sense? Maybe it's a little different because we also have our 2.5 year old we're dealing with at home and there's not this huge sense of urgency one might have if it's your first. I dunno if that helps but it helped me.
Plus we'll get through it together!
Janet
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