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Not everyone bonds instantly with a bchild, let alone an adopted child right away always. Sometimes it takes a bit of time. I wouldn't worry about not bonding with a photo. Keep walking until the Lord says stop. Do you find yourself feeling like it might be more difficult to bond with a child of a different color skin than yours because they will look so different--even if you are open to a bi-racial child? I know of a family who felt that way in the begining but after some transition time, the relationship defined more of the bond and color/race wasn't an issue.
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