[love4]

My daughter lives with her birthparents. So now she is in control.............finally. She didn't get to choose her parents (but which one of us did?). Now she can control who she wants in her life and who she doesn't. Or maybe she can have both. Her choice. She felt so out of control most of her years and yet she controlled and manipulated every relationship she had. She was angry at not having a choice. She is still angry and she chose. She chooses to be with her birthparents and she holds guilt over her birthmom's head. Birthmom can't be set free from guilt. How sad to be in control and hurt everyone around you. The people who love you. She is in control and yet she is not free. She loses the people she loves because she needs to be in control. Those who love her stand by.................watching. Soon they will have to stop watching because they need to be set free. They did everything they could. Nothing else to do. How sad to be in control.