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Old 11-13-2004, 07:32 PM
Jackiejdajda Jackiejdajda is offline
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Dana quoted..My life is good and I have a family of my own, and I do not want anything to mess that up. I feel that this will be the best for everyone involved. I have always wanted what was best for you and I hope that this gives you some closure to this situation

Dana I want to say I am so sorry you are having to deal with this.. It must be terrible..

But how can her life be good if she is afraid of anything rocking the boat? And IMO she has told you nothing (if this is all you got from her)
It sounds like she is keeping secrets.. She may be keeping secrets from her husband.. her mate.

Its about pretend for some of us.. We were told to pretend back then and some of us keep up the pretending..

If her life was good she would want to meet up with you IMO.. She would want to know what you looked like.. How you spoke..

For some of us emotions were verboten when we relinquished.. Some of us do not understand them.. Do not understand the hurt..

Jackie
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