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I read once that (probably on this board lol) that adoption shouln't be viewed as a replacement for a child that you can't have biologicaly.It is a seperate experince altogether.I suppose if looks are what will make a child feel like yours then this is not the child for you.I am a parent in a transracial adoption and am excited and thankfull to learn about my childs culture.I do think that it is a big responsability to make her feel a part of both worlds that she lives in.This has never been a factor in my love or acceptance of her as my child though.Good luck with your journey wichever path you choose.
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