I told you so....
I got the "I told you so" from my immediate family. My own mother gave me the comment, "You should be happy with the four beautiful sons God gave you. You know, there are people in the world with a lot of money and big homes that should take these children."
She even worked on my kids telling them that if we took in another child after the second disruption that they or the new kid would not be welcome in their home. They live right next door. Talk about a lot of hot air guilt trip. It is hard to believe I am this woman's daughter sometimes. I think these comments are their defense mechanism against the loss they felt when these kids left us.
Doctorcat
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