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circk quote:
"You feel out of place and maybe don't belong and yet there are times when you, yourself, need the support no matter how minor the issue may seem to others, so you do your best and stick with the group."
first off, you do belong, and i never thought of your issues as being small, i dont think anyone has.
you have adopted 4 siblings....and i have read some of your replys and to be honest i think "well, thank god im not in her shoes....lol"
i cant imagine four. I do belive your sence of humor sustains you. but dont think for a minute that your issues are minor..remember, i read your posts....lol
sometimes for me, the most hardest issues are the ones i cant figure out....is this adoption related, or is it just normal kid stuff....that stuff makes me batty..
my younger son confuses me more then my older. my older, we knew what to expect...my younger, i still havnt figured him out yet...and he scares me more.
my older son didnt scare me, i knew where things were coming from....my younger, who thinks, has all his faciltys working....makes it harder for me to figure out.
this might seem minor, but sometimes i catch him looking at me, i mean looking at me...and i think "hmmm...wonder what he is thinking about...." thats minor to some, but for me, its a real issue and im not sure if hes trying to figure me out....but creeps me out a little
so, no crick, your problems are far from minor....you are in the right place, dont question about that.
you got four of them....lol
dadfor2
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