[chickenrunshrek]

"I duno, I just got the "Why does it matter, you're just a birthmom" vibe from you. "

I hope you aren't so ignorantly judgmental with the family to whom you relinquished your child. You have no idea what our family has been through over the past four years and yet you are so quick to jump on the "blame the adoptive parents" bandwagon. Read my post again, especially the part that is in parentheses. Not once did I generalize or indicate that I thought, "all birthparents are flakey, don't care or what have you." I was merely responding to your original posting, in, which you stated,
"So please, let me know what happened after the agency pulled out of your adoption. Did you remain at the same level of openness? Pull back? Continue to work on your relationship?" I thought that you needed to hear and understand that not all open adoptions turn out the way that all parties envisioned them being.