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If you're worried about not bonding with the photo, then you can stop worrying. Many, many people don't bond with the photo, and it's considered perfectly normal. After all human relations are based on experiences, contact, a history together, not pieces of paper.
BUT, if you're worried that you won't be able to bond with a child of a different race, then please don't adopt a child of another race. No one will think less of you for it in the sense that it's MUCH more important to be honest with yourself and the child. People have turned down referrals before; it's hard, but it does happen and you will be matched with another child.
HTH
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