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Barki,
Your reply reminded me of one other frustration - the "accessing services". My son didn't have RAD or ODD or anything diagnosed, but did come with some anger and other issues (what child doesn't???) I was told "well, of course the state will pay for therapy" - but I never found one therapist - not one! - who was both experienced with adoption issues *and* would accept the state's insurance! This is my child's mental health - I'm going to take him to Joe Blow from the Yellow Pages, who knows nothing about adoption, just because he's free???? Yes, my son's therapy came out of my pocket. (And worth every penny, but jeez, it shouldn't have to be that way!!)
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