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2 more questions ...
I have read most, but not all of the posts and have 2 more to add:
1) Are you ready to keep enough records of who was where, when, and with whom, as well as records of lies (big an small) to defend against false accusations of sexual abuse brought against family or family friends?
2) Are you ready to let your teenager live the childhood they only dreamed of in safety and privacy? (We have a riding lawnmower with a red wagon attachment that we use to move horse hay and other stuff. Our previous 14 yo SA victim liked to ride in the red wagon when my DH mowed the lawn. My, then 20 yo bio son saw one day and asked what she was doing since he had not wanted a ride in the wagon since he was about 4. I simply responded "She never got a chance to BE 4. He understood. BTW our yard is VERY private so there was no chance for embarrassment for her with neighbors or kids from school seeing her. It was safe for her.)
KC
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