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Dad-you forgot the neighbors again!! My neighbors think we're nuts.
Our classes didn't even begin to cover this and not sure I would have believed it anyway.
I've talked at some classes-taking my kiddos along. They love to shock the parents by telling them all the mean things they did to all the foster families. They also tell them why it's different at my house.
But I do know the police well and spent time with my favorite officers this weekend dealing with some angry kiddos.
I'd hate to discourage the adoption of special needs kids, but being realistic about what to expect is important. Education is
important. Knowing what to look for in a child's profile is important. Making sure the right services are available to meet the child's needs is important.
Dealing with your own personal issues is a must. Having no buttons to push and being able to react to all kinds of behavior in a calm, but clear manner is needed.
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