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I am sorry for the pain you are feeling right now. As you can see, there are many who have been in your shoes. I can only suggest this: Ask your agency to inform you only when there is a child that has already been born. I know this sounds crazy to some; but you'd be surprised to learn of the couples who now feel this way, after having been taken advantage by people who are pregnant.
I know these situations are not as common.....but they do exist. I realize that you may not get as much info from the prospective birthpeople as you might want.....but in our experience, we have been provided with a lot of medical history and such.
Your wait might be a little longer (but not always)......but at least you will not be taken advantage of...which is always a risk.
Hang in there, no matter what you choose.....
Sincerely,
Linny
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