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ember,

Thank you so much for asking that question. I am in the process of adopting our 2 fc and was wondering the same things.

All of you that responded gave me so much valuable information, Thank you!

Christa, I especially thank you for your response. I appreciate you having the courage to speak up from the "child's" point of view.

Jensboys, I loved the way you explained things to your children. I hope you don't mind but I'm going to "steal" your ideas - Thank you.