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I also agree that there needs to be an uninvolved 3rd party brought in at this point. There seems to be wavering going on and unless everyone is comfortable it won't work. My other comment is that here I've "met" several online A-moms whose kids aren't confused by OA and visits. If your only concern is that the child will become confused why not educate yourself on the ways to avoid having that occur?
I agree with AMom2 that it isn't the responsiblity of PA-parents to educate PB-moms; but IMO you have a moral obligation to make sure this "friend" who you say you really care about has all the facts and resources available to her so that she isn't left with a lifetime of pain and what-if's. Its what friends who really love respect and care do for each other when one is facing a crisis situation, especially since she is telling YOU her feelings. Tara
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