[love4]

I totally agree with you Lynn. It is my desire to look at all aspects of adoption. It is a fact that some do what our daughters have done. I am not trying to scare anyone. Adoptive parents need to be aware and prepared. Had I been prepared it wouldn't have come to such a shock. We all think that if we love enough or do the right things that these things won't happen but it does. I know we are not the only ones that this has happened to.
Would I do anything different? Definitely not. Would I adopt again? Absolutely YES! I enjoy all my girls even through their struggles.
To snuffie: My daughter is 29 and she is no longer in the honeymoon period. Actually she is showing her true self to her birthfamily now and they are struggling with her. I will be here forever. Doors open wide but I am not standing at the door anymore.