I know there all kinds of circumstances that prompt adoptions and all kinds of horror stories about birth families. But if they would pass a law where all children who were adopted be told at 18 and the birthparent or birthparents should have a family history and all information an adoptee might want to know (in the future) on file with the adoption agency. That way if an adoptee wants to look or know who what when and why??????/ They have it all there in a file and then they can decide for themselfs if they want to meet or search for their birthfamily. Im searching for my nephew born june 30,1982 in ok. city oklahoma..I dont think hes searchimg yet but i sent a family history with names, numbers reason for adoption and all the info. i could think of that he might want to know to the adoption angency. Just in case he wants to find us. At least he will know who his granparents and family are and a little about them. Adoption laws in my opinion were passed to protect the moms and dads so no-one would know of their secrets and sins...." Well i guess ive said enough. But good luck to those who search and god bless all in the adoption dilema...............Vicky
