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KellyStacey,
Just be careful. I have 2 kids from the same bparents. I had originally agreed to a semiopen adoption with pics and phone calls for the first coupla years. The bparents live in another state so I didn't think much after our second was born. However, 3 months ago, they called saying they were passing thru town and neede 50 bucks for gas to get home, and they wanted to see the kids. I agreed only because they are still young and I figured a 30 minute visit would be fine. I have found out she is pg AGAIN, and they will be moving back to our town soon. I am scared that they will call and want to hook up. I don't know what to do. I feel like I screwed up because I didn't set the correct boundaries. So, with that said, turn it down. I know easier said than done, but you will be miserable in the future if you listen to your heart and not you brain. Good luck.Kathy
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