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You're right!!!
I guess i'm not really mad at the school. I know they were doing what they were supposed to and I also know that in many cases they are saving the child from future abuse. I also understand that DHS is only doing it's job by protecting the other kids in the home when a report is made.
It was just so heartbreaking to have our little girl torn away from us. She has such a hard time with seperation and feeling comfortable with strangers. I know this will set her back in her development and may cause future trust issues.....and bonding issues like it has in the passed for her. Plus the fact that she missed out on Halloween and will also miss out on Thanksgiving. We had a trip planned for December to go see family before Christmas and we may not get her back in time for that. So we might end up having to re-arrange our plans or cancel them. It would be even more heartbreaking to go without her....on our family trip.
I still feel that someone should have asked us what happened before starting the process of investigation. i guess the only reason why it went straight to the police is because of what our fs said to the school. They won't even tell us what was said...just that he said his dad did it. I have a feeling he was asked leading questions and just said yes to them...because he always says yes to questions that he should say no. .
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