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insecurity?
I am the sister of an adopted brother, and Aparents gave him almost no info and discouraged his questions about his Bmother. Even now, long after Aparents are dead, he feels disloyalty them in letting me search for his Bmother. I think they were feeling insecure and wondering if he might love the Bmother more than them if he found her, not fully realizing the strong unbreakable bond they had with him. It's sad, but I think in their case, their insecurity probably prevented him from ever finding his Bmother. This is probably not true for everyone. I am speaking only for this family. KathyY
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