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While I can understand your being concerned (I would, too) may I suggest rethinking the "telling the child when the time is right"? Kids do so much better with honesty from the get go. If you let the child grow up knowing they were adopted, allowed the words & talk - adoption- to be routine or common place -the child has more self assurance of who they are in this world. Regarding visitation- I certainly can't answer that for you. But if you are in contact with her then your child will have the chance to have so many questions answered when needed.
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