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I too have no regrets. I am thankful for my 4 girls. I miss my daughter too! It doesn't hurt as much any more. I do have my days though.
My daughter also said I am her mom and she loves me but I hardly ever see her or talk with her. It happens.
We need to be aware that these things happen. We need to be aware of the hole in the heart that we can't fill no matter how hard we try. We need to be aware of possible attachment problems. We don't see it when our kids are young. Everything is wonderful. We are mom and they are our child. They love us and we love them. We see it more as they grow older. I watched my daughter in 8th grade fall away from her peers and attach to older women. Searching for that mom she wonders about. She is torn with the people she lives with and the people she wonders about. It appeared that she was attached to us but now I wonder........................!
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smiles are on
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