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Thanks for the responses! It is good to see this from another side. I have a really hard time seeing this from all angles, because I am so blinded by everyone's loss. I just want our daughter to feel as loved and accepted for all that she is and has been through as possible. I am also afraid that when the day comes and she begins to ask about what we knew, she will be angry at us for having had this information and not doing anything. I am afriad the people she wants to learn about will be gone and we'll be to blame for not getting her something from them when there was a chance. Perhaps it would have been better to never have the information, so I wouldn't have to questions the right thing to do with it? I do not think that meeting anyone or parents knowing anything about where we live etc. is a good idea either. This would have to be done safely and without our daughter knowing until the time is right. I hoped at the least, I could get a letter or photo to put away in our daughter's file for when she is ready.
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