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Seriously? You should just be able to contest it! You have to have your rights terminated in order for him to adopt. And if there are no grounds...you shouldnt have a problem. In court, it is the person bringing the accusations who has to prove their case...not the person that the allegations are against. The case pending itself shows that you have not intentionally abandoned your child..and if what you are saying is the whole story...I hope that the judge sticks it to her.
Usually a judge wont terminate a father's rights against his will. There really has to be grounds for that!
My advice? If there is a visitation order, make sure that you have a certified copy of it and make sure that you show up for visitation. When you do, if she is not there or does not answer the door... call the police department and make a report for every instance. Keep a log with anything tangible phone records proving you were there, etc. If there is a visitation court order she IS legally obligated to follow it.
Good Luck!
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