I know what you are going through. I'm in pretty much the same boat. see nightmare adoption. I don't have much advice but I would love to talk to you. I do know this is a hard time for you. Get an attorney. Do you know if the birth mother will be supporting you and if he supported her at all during her pregnancy if he didn't that will help your case. Does he have any other children that you can use his parenting history or lack of it for your case. My little boy is almost 8 months old now. He was placed into my arms when he was 5 minutes old. Birth father is hoping to get his son by 11/30/04.
Are you able to find any of his family? I have the birth father's mother and one of his sisters on my side and they don't even know me. that kind of help my be valuable to you if you can find them.
Let me know how things go and once again I would love to talk to you.
anxiousmama
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