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You know...we've done this seven times (adopted). We have only four children at home now....ranging in ages 16months to 13yrs. Two girls...two boys (praise God...and I mean that!)
But......here's the thing I think is real important to consider:
Don't let yourself feel guilty because you wanted to adopt another child.
There will be times that your present child may 'break your heart'...when you realize that the dynamics of your family will 'change'. This doesn't mean it won't be good....but it will be 'different'.
And....realize that even though there may be times when they fight and such.....down the road, they will more than likely appreciate each other very much.
I think the advice you have already received is great. I just wanted to add my own too.
Sincerely,
Linny
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