[michellemartin]

its not the first time I've read a post like yours. Your not alone in your feelings. The advice given last time was basically, if it doesnt feel right, dont do it. I would suggest putting a limit on aid you are willing to give a prebirthmom. For one if she changes her mind it is non refundable. For another, it could be seen as coercion if you "help" to much. Financially that is. Never give cash. Any time you pay a bill pay directly to the company it is to go to. If she needs groceries, get a card for her at a grocery store that doesnt sell liquor or cigarettes if at all possible, or go with her. Um, thats all for my advice...