[bertha]

hi natalie

i asked post adoption if a social worker could help me as i know this was done in the past and all she said was i could have a social worker to discuss my feelings!!!my feelings are frustration i understand what the veto means but as i understand it that means no name released to birthparents.i dont even want them to give me any that info just let him know he has a sister and if he wants the letter forward it to him.if he dont want any contact with me than so be it.all post adoption said is we will keep everything on file if he ever looks here.ive done all i can and im just letting it be if anything comes of it ill deal with it then.i know you cant let this stuff consume your life whatever happens or dont happen so be it thats the way im looking at it now.

marilyn