|
Thank you all. Your understanding and lack of condemnation over the last couple of days has really helped me. I couldn't leave the site alone yesterday. Dh kept coming in and saying "how did I know you would be in here?!".
I had a good talk with may Nana this morning, she raised her niece from birth as her own, even before she met and married Grandad. Her niece was 4 when she married, and 7 before they had any of their own children. Always loved by them both, and she said she never felt any differently about any of the children. I love my Nana to bits, she always has something to say to help me sort myself out!!
There are very few adoptions in my area, but I found out yesterday that presently there is an URGENT need for foster care for newborns, both now and in the very near future (not born yet), many for long term and permanent placement. Dh and I are now considering this option as well.
Kat
|