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like the other posters, dh and I usually picture a bio child combining the worst (his nose-you can park two suvs in it, my hips, my teeth with his small mouth, etc). it's not pretty. I think it's different, however if you really want a bio daughter, but i believe your feelings will change/lessen when you hold your daughter in your arms. At the moment things are stressful and emotional, but you will have joy when you gaze into your daughter's eyes and other thoughts will leave your head.
people think our daughter looks like us, which is such a joke. She is absolutely gorgeous, much more attractive than anything we could have produced.
may your wait be short,
LisaCA
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-first time amom to dd, born 7/7/04
-placed in our arms by a very loving bmom 7/9/04
-bfather's rights terminated 9/7/04
-just connected with bdad!!! 2/9/05
-visited bfamilies for a week, awesome trip 6/05
-bfather signed legally binding open adoption
agreement 7/05
-finalized (woohoo!) 18th of November 2005
-Thinking about adoption #2!
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