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I can see why you might think about it, but for us it's not an issue. My DH and I both have the attitude, "What makes our genes so special? Well, nothing!" I guess that's why choosing adoption to begin our family was so easy for us. We didn't grieve the 'loss' of having a bio child. We're just so excited/anxios that we seem to each have many dreams with our future child in them. We talk about what 'munchkin'(that's what we call our future child) looked like and chuckle at how different he/she is from dream to dream. Do you ever dream about her?
But don't be too hard on yourself! Your obviously stressed and anxious. Thinks will all work out in the end. Once you hold your DD you will think she is perfect not matter what she looks like!
Hang in there,
Nina
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