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This might sound kind of juvinile and I don't mean for it to sound insensitive, but my dh and I have talked about features of ourself we don't like very much and would say, "can you imagine our child with my ____ and your ____" . I didn't say it is always right. We actually found peace assuming the worst. We joke around wondering if our bio-kid would be less than cute. Our boys (adopted) are beautiful and we also make comments like, "he wouldn't have gotten those beautiful eyes from me". I never assumed our bio-children would be healthy and beautiful.
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