Hi Amom2two,
Our facilitator told us that Florida is a very adoption friendly state.
I also know that Kathy101 on the forum flew to Florida to pick up their son after consents were signed, but I can't remember how long their ICPC wait was. It didn't seem all that long though like maybe a week. You may want to talk to her personally about their experience.
Will be praying for you!!
HuGs!
Judy