|
I don't want to sound heartless but if these kids are harming you and you bio kids/family physically and emotionally get rid of them. 14 is very old to try and change emotionally. When we adopted our ason (he was 6 at the time) the social worker told us not to move too fast trying to adopt, he advised us that not all families can adjust, and some adoptive kids won't or can't change from the lifestyle they grew up in for the majority of their life. Don't feel bad but if the kids are ruining your family they must go. Sorry but you must take care of your immidete family first, helping out other family members is a great offer but not at the expence or your immediate family.
__________________
Sledge
|