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visits
Best advice I can give is talk to your children's social worker as rules differ from state to state.
That said, in Calif. if you adopt you are in control. bmom has no rights but you can choose to allow contact if you so desire. I reccomend visits take place at a neutral place such as a park or a McDonald's and that personal information regarding your home be withheld. (i.e. address) It is usually good for the children to have some contact but it needs to be limited and you need to be in control.
I also liked the suggestion someone else made about a written agreement. That is often a good idea.
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