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Thanks for the responses.
I will get together with my husband and share your thoughts with him.
Pat does want a relationship with her, but at the same time he didn't want her to think that he was trying to force his way into her life. I also think he is trying to guard himself from being hurt if his birthmother chooses not to have a relationship with him. He felt that a letter filled with expectations would turn her off more than one that didn't really have any.
Loretta
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