Hello,
I am a birth mother also, your letter sounds very business-like, and I guess this is good if you are trying to get the message to her that the only thing you and your husband want from her is medical history and a picture as a curiosity.
If I received your letter in the mail, I would assume that my son had no desire for any type of relationship from me and I would be reluctant to respond, simply because it would open my heart and wounds for nothing. Also, since he would have written nothing to me directly, not even a postscript note at the bottom, I wouldn't think he wanted any contact from me at all and that as his wife you were simply concerned about medical history.
These are just my feelings when reading the letter and I don't mean any disrespect at all.. honestly.. just my feelings/thoughts
Take care,
Brenda
