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nrj
i wouldnt even think about adopting or fostering again at this point, you need time to heal and gain your strength and pick up your lost pieces.
but, no, not all children are like this. i have two, siblings, one we had to disrupt due to behaviors, the other is still with us, who is fine for now.
but take the time off, clean up your house, take a few days and spend some quality time with your family.
if in the future you want to try again, you have learned alot of what child you can parent and what child you cant.
the sad thing, there is no shortage of kids that need homes...so in a year from now, or whenever, you want to revisit it again....there will be children waiting.
anyway, im sorry, i know its hard, we are going through it too. It must of been very hard for you when they pulled away.
we still have visits with our son, and it kills me everytime i have to say goodbye as he waves from the window.
its so devastating.
take care of yourself, you deserve it
dadfor2
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